Dirty Sexual Questions to Ask a Girl

Dirty Sexual Questions to Ask a Girl

OK, so you want to live a little dangerously! Dirty sexual questions to ask a girl could get you into trouble. And that could be good trouble or bad trouble. Dirty sexual questions to ask a girl are a little like hot oil. They can be great for the right cooking, if used wisely. But they can also burn you bad if used poorly. So, consider yourself warned.

Down the page is some information to help you to become a master of this art of asking the right questions at the right time! Sometimes called the Master Class for men who want to know exactly what a woman wants, which can deliver to those men what they want.

Onto the dirty sexual questions to ask a girl…

Slightly dirty sexual questions to ask a girl

These are some lighter questions you can bring into the right situations, in the right place, at the right time.

1. What do you wear in bed?
A good question to start with. It gets you talking about the bedroom, her thinking about the bedroom and can lead to questions about sexy lingerie and flirty pajamas. Ask about the sexy nightgowns she likes to wear, or if she sleeps in the nude. Ask about how she feels when she wears these things.

2. What is the sexiest outfit you have worn out?
You can find out what she feels sexiest in. You might be surprised! You may get to learn a little about each other’s sexual fantasies by asking this question. For some it could be the opportunity to talk about a sexy new outfit they’ve been wanting to try on.

3. Which part of your body do you consider most sexy and attractive?
This gives you an idea about how she feels about herself, and what she does or doesn’t see that you do. This is a great way to find out how to build up a woman’s self confidence.

4. If you could see any part of a man’s body, which part would be most exciting?
She could be polite and use the standard answers, like eyes, or smile etc. Try to encourage her to name something different, any part of a man’s anatomy. You can then have some fun together talking about why she chose that and why this excites her.

5. What kind of movies do you like watching?
If the topic is sex then she will know that this question is related to porn movies. If the topic isn’t yet on sex, this could be a bit random to ask this. But if you can find out if she likes watching porn movies, then you can ask her what type, and whether she finds them arousing when watching with sex. This info could come in handy later.

6. What kind of literature turns you on?
As per Q5., if the topic is sex then this is a good direction, if it isn’t yet, you may need to lead into that first with some other questions. Remember that while most men respond to visual stimulation, many women respond well to written words as their imaginations can be more active and inventive.

7. Do you fantasize about anyone, or any type of situation when you are alone?
Let her know that it is perfectly acceptable (and normal) to fantasize about someone else when she is alone. The freedom it affords a woman is key to keeping her attracted to you. and if she can tell you about her fantasies, it can help you meet her needs.

8. Have you ever watched other people make out or have sex?
This will help you both imagine sexual activity, but it is about other people, so it can help being more relaxed and play along with your line of questioning. You can ask what they did, how did she see them, did she want to stay and watch more, did she see anything she hadn’t seen before etc.

9. Have you even been caught in the act?
So has anyone watched her? How did she feel about it? Did it stop her, did she want to finish, or did it even arouse her more? This will give you lots of insights into her, her inhibitions and desires etc.

10. Do you like it when people hear you?
Give her permission to be vocal and expressive in such circumstances. Again, you can find out things about her, how vocal she is, how vocal she likes to be, her inhibitions, her turn ons etc.

11. Do you have a “secret” move when you want to turn a guy on?
She may or may not, or even if she does, she may be shy about it. But try and have her describe it in detail, and ask her what has happened when she tried it, does it work, and what she wants to happen when she uses it. The more she talks about taking control in getting a guy turned on then the more empowered and aroused she is likely to become.

More daring dirty sexual questions to ask a girl

These questions are a little more daring. Once she is comfortable talking about sex with you, then you can ask her more personal questions about herself.

12. Where is the one place on your body that always gets you in the mood?
Not only will this question let you know her sexual preferences, it will also cause her to visualize them. As she is describing her stimulating zone, chances are she is also thinking about it. This question helps to get her aroused and can also improve your technique with her in the bedroom. You can also ask her about the best experiences she has had with this, helping her imagine it more.

13. Do you get aroused from receiving a massage?
Some women find it easy to become sexually aroused during a massage and others find it extremely difficult. However she feels about this, you can discover what she does like, and help her become aroused just by describing how it feels when she gets what she wants.

14. Have you ever decided to kiss or make out with a guy just because you were horny at that time?
Men often stereotype women, believing that females don’t get the same primal sexual urges that men do. Newsflash! Women also experience bursts of sexual desire and some women feel no shame about acting on them. Getting her to open up about a wild fling not only gives her a chance to brag, gives you a chance to hear about how it happened, and is the perfect opportunity to be there, should her need arise once again.

15. Do you enjoy oral sex?
Many women do just like men. No matter what answer she gives, you already have her thinking about it.

16. A natural next step question…Do you like giving oral and/or getting it, or even a 69?
There is really no wrong answer here either. If you are both talking openly about what you do or dont like then that is awesome. No matter what she answers, you can always answer with the opposite. If she likes giving an oral, say you like getting it. If she likes getting it, tell her you love giving it! If she likes a 69er, then so do you….perfect!

17. Do you prefer body hair, or completely shaved?
While this question could garner a lot of discussion, it may have her picturing you naked and aroused. Plus, you can then consider whether to shave down or let it grow.

18. How do you like to be taken?
Does she like a firm hand by someone who knows what they want. Does she prefer to lead. Does she want a gentle caressing touch that guides you both to the same result. There are many options available for the two of you. One of the many questions you can ask if you want to take things up a few notches.

Leading dirty sexual questions to ask a girl

These questions are leading you to find out about how she is feeling, and whether now is the time to see where you two can go right now.

19. Are these questions arousing you?
She may say yes or no, but watch how she says it. If the questions haven’t gotten her ready for the next step, then this questions just helps a little more. Knowing that you both want the same thing, even if she isn’t ready to say so, is a great start.

20. What can I do to help you become aroused?
Or if she has already said she is aroused, you can ask what “more” can you do. This question will make her appreciate much more, and is also good way for you to learn what she truly enjoys, and what stimulates her sexual desire. She may also want you two to go somewhere private if things are working out well.

21. Do you want me to kiss you?
Any questions involving kissing almost always have a woman picturing physical intimacy with her partner. By having her describe some of your more passionate kisses, she can visualize the romantic encounter between you and become aroused hoping that it happens again. Or if the first time, it just gives her the opportunity to say yes.

22. If I were whispering all these questions in your ear, would you be turned on more?
If you’ve got the conversation going this far, she’s obviously enjoying it, and may be aroused already. But it always sounds a lot better hearing it from her.

23. (If she has a boyfriend) If you didn’t have a boyfriend, do you think we would have made out with each other?
(Or if you are on the phone or via text message) If I were with you right now, do you think we would make out?

This question can actually get you into her bed. She can say yes, without feeling like she is asking you to come over. But you may need to wait for the last question to get an invitation from her.

24. If a guy wants to come over to your place and make out with you right now, would you want that?
Don’t talk about yourself just yet, unless you already know she wants you to come over. If she answers “yes”, go full speed ahead to her place. Otherwise, keep playing the seduction game.

Some random dirty sexual questions to ask a girl

These are some random, very specific questions that could help or may not, depending on the woman. Ask these carefully and choose wisely. Obviously these are not questions to get started with…you need to warm things up first.

25. Have you ever thought about being with (or have you been with) another woman?
This is a way to explore her experience, her desires, her fantasies, her orientation.

26. Do you like to watch and fantasize?
Many women do like to watch and fantasize, but some wont admit it. Those who can admit it are most definitely more open to more things as they will probably have lower inhibitions.

27. Have you ever, and do you like to swallow?
Just another hobby of hers that you may want to know about.

28. Have you ever tried anal sex?
No harm in asking (in the right situation, at the right time, with the right woman). It is good to know what she likes.

29. What is your favorite position?
We all have them, so why not ask. She may have different faves for different reasons too.

30. Have you ever performed or would you consider exhibition?
Again, great to know what she likes, how far she will go, and whether you are willing to take her there.

31. Do you own or use a vibrator/artificials?
Great to know whether she regularly explores her sexuality on her own, and how well she understands what she wants. You can also use this question to gauge whether she likes you to participate in the use of her extra equipment.

32. Do you prefer length or breadth, and what size is ideal?
OK, now don’t get too self conscious here. Don’t go running home with a tape measure and feel proud or devastated as a result. Feeling arrogant or depressed is not going to help your next step. But getting her to talk about this is ok. And she will be fine with whatever equipment you have. Knowing what she likes and how to meet that in bed will be much better than just having length or breadth. but asking with confidence shows you have no fear of the result and will display confidence.

33. Have you ever tried handcuffs or being tied down or blindfolded?
Not all women are into exploring the territory between pleasure and pain so it will help to find out how she feels about this.

34. Have you ever tried other positions?
If read up on the Kama Sutra you will be well educated in not only many positions, but also the names of them. Some positions work better for some men, some better for some women. So find out what she likes, what she has experienced and what she wants to try.

35. Have you ever dated 2 guys at the same time?
This could be taken multiple ways. It could be about dating multiple guys, and it could be about being with multiple guys at the same time. For the latter see the next question. If she does or has dated multiple guys then you may want to understand the circumstances, and how (or whether) you want to go forward with her.

36. Have you ever had a threesome or group sex?
Worth asking as it will give you an insight into her personality, what she has experienced, what she may desire etc.

37. When was the last time you went to a strip club?
Find out if she has ever been to a strip club and if she would like to go with you?

38. Have you ever enjoyed it when a guy has touched you while in a public place?
Girls have a thing about being touched in public. Even if it’s accidental, it’s something they won’t forget. Whether she enjoyed the experience or not and under what conditions if any is something you want to know. So find out.

Master Class in Communicating with Girls

As you master these dirty sexual questions to ask a girl, you will get better at communicating with women. This involves using both verbal and non-verbal language and importantly being able to read verbals and non-verbals from women. Sometimes referred to as a Master Class for men who want to know exactly what women want and when. Become a master of this art!

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Dirty Sexual Questions to ask a girl

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