As a teenage guy, I liked to flirt with girls so much. I wasn’t great at it, but that certainly wouldn’t put me off (it probably damaged my chances more often than not though). The main problem I had, was knowing that I should keep it light and “flirty” but eventually running out of questions. I wish I could have looked up the flirty questions to ask a girl while I sneaked out to the bathroom. But this site wasn’t around then.
Before long I would be moving onto more sexual questions which in many cases was not OK and quite awkward. That’s what this list is for though, now you don’t have to make the same mistakes I did. We’ve already got 20 questions here, but that will increase with time as more people come along and add their own.
Onto the flirty questions to ask a girl.
What do you like about yourself?
I think every girl secretly likes to talk about herself, and you get to agree, disagree, suggest other great things about her, receive compliments of your own. Quite a broad platform for flirting here.
Which kind of a guy are you attracted to?
Hey, even if she describes a girl very different from you, it doesn’t have to be the end of the world. Listen and take notes. (Make sure she is not just pulling your leg though).
How far can you go on our 3rd date?
This is a more cocky version of the classic “On a 3rd date”. Making it “Our” 3rd date is a bold assumption and could do well.
Describe me in three words.
Get three words ready to describe her in when she asks you to return the favor.
Don’t you hate it when random guys ask you questions?
I love this question for the irony, assuming you are a “random guy”, you just made her relax a bit more.
What do you do on your days off? Can we date?
Another alternative might be “What can we do on your days off?” – You can decide which you prefer.
If you were going to take me out for a romantic evening, what would we do?
This is similar to the above, but keeps it more hypothetical, which in turn opens up more flirting opportunities.
Continuing your flirty questions to ask a girl…
Will you suggest a few Flirting tips for me, am I bad at it?
This one should be used comically if you think things are not going so well..
What outfit would you enjoy most on me?
Go hire yourself a fire fighter outfit!
Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
Any slightly naughty “have you ever..?” questions should work well.
What turns you on?
I think this one and the one below it are fairly self-explanatory.
What turns you off?
Cuddle or Makeout?
One usually leads to the other, maybe you can invite her to cuddle with you.
What would be your perfect romantic getaway?
Take notes and start saving, better yet, suggest something even better.
Whats your favorite thing to do with a guy?
I said do “with” not do “to” you naughty devil
And yet more flirty questions to ask a girl…
Describe your ideal relationship
I imagine you’ve heard it before, but let her associate the perfect relationship with you all the same.
How do you feel about seeing more than 1 guy?
Hey, this is quite useful to find out “how she rolls”.
Define your perfect date
Similar to previous questions, it’s all about associations (and note taking)
What’s your weakness/soft-spot in a guy?
Maybe you can exploit it.
How can I exploit that?
Great minds think alike!
Girls Think Differently
When it comes to flirting, it is all too easy to “go too far”. If I had a dollar for every time I went too far….well, you know how it goes.
Despite making this list, I do believe that the real skill in flirting comes from being witty and “on the spot” thinking goes a long way. However, it is not always easy to achieve this type of flirting, and therefore this list is a great “back-up”.
As always, feel free to add your own questions below to help this list grow.
Check out the other lists in the “Questions to ask a girl” section here.
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